Welcome to After the Fire Nineteen 12

A faith-based resource for healing from domestic violence and coercive control.

Ephesians 6:12
For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of the dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. 

The enemy seeks our complacency and instills fear within us. This fear can lead to silence, causing us to tread carefully, with a sense of walking on eggshells. The enemy aims to dominate our thoughts, fostering confusion through deceit and manipulation. This can manifest as an internal critic, persuading us that we do not deserve a more fulfilling life. The enemy can use anyone in our lives to carry out his plan to steal, kill, and destroy, but his tactics are more successful when he uses those closest to us. It is essential to recognize these tactics and resist their influence to reclaim our sense of worth and agency.

God says in Joshua 1:9 Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous, do not be afraid, do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go. 
Paul confirms in 2 Timothy 1:7 For God has not given us a Spirit of fear, but of power and love and a sound mind.

Paul further provides instructions for Christian living in Ephesians. 5:11-13 have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them. It is shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret. But everything exposed by the light becomes visible - and everything that is illuminated becomes a light. 

In our journey through life, it's often those who have faced the greatest challenges who emerge as beacons of hope for others. I invite you to embrace the inspiration that comes from my personal experiences and the wisdom God has provided while healing my mind, body, and spirit. My heartfelt wish is that you discover encouragement in these stories, igniting a spark within you to pursue a closer relationship with Jesus. Every step you take toward healing and Biblical truth not only transforms your life but also empowers you to be a guiding light for others. Let’s embark on this journey together, fueled by positivity and the belief that with the help of our Lord and Saviour, we can rise above any obstacle!

1 Kings 19:12 After the earthquake came a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire. And after the fire came a gentle whisper.

After the Fire Nineteen 12 began in my basement on the night of October 31st, 2021. As I sat there in pain, overwhelmed by betrayal, grief, and shame, I heard the gentle voice of God softly say, "Sweetheart, it's time to leave."

It was a night of darkness and despair, but His message was crystal clear. I knew that if I was going to have a chance for survival, I had to escape the life I was living. In the face of opposition and the devastation of Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, I chose to draw closer to God. When I lost the support of everyone closest to me, God stayed with me and never left my side. His love became my guiding light when all hope seemed lost. With His strength, I broke free from the chains that bound me, both physically and mentally. God's healing touch restored my mind, body, and spirit, giving me a renewed sense of purpose and a vision of a future filled with grace, mercy, and love. 

Each day, I wake up with a heart full of gratitude, ready to glorify His name through my actions. I am a living testament to the power of faith and resilience. No matter what challenges come my way, I know that God is with me, guiding me towards a brighter tomorrow. Embrace the journey ahead with courage and faith, for with God by your side, anything is possible. Trust in His plan and will for you. Let God direct you down the path to a life better than anything you have ever imagined. 

 

In the words of Jude, 

"Mercy, peace, and love be yours in abundance."

 

 

Rae

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